The bright glare of the lights of the night city is refracted by the watercolor of the cold tears of my window.. You left. And now there is chronic rain in my window..

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You know, black humor is your decision.. Well, I’m in a fit of compliance.. I’ll buy a high-grade drink and.. make lotion on the petals of the farewell bouquet). The roses have withered - the fairy tale is over.. Saying goodbye - I forgive..

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They say that in life there is no chance encounters and random people.. You were my craziest inspiration.. Goodbye.. And all my words will not change anything.. It hurts. Losing inspiration too...

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Goodbye my Dream.. - wondrous, beautiful.. Mesmerizing with a rainbow of sensations) - you know how to do this.. Hello all-absorption of gray.. I wake up..

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Well, hello... Everyone says, “for the better.” I don’t know. Can a vacuum be “for the better”? Without you there is emptiness.. Complete.. deafening..

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..the neighbors say hello.. people on the street smile.. our friends call and say something to me.. and I keep thinking.. you left - the world remained the same.. everything collapsed only for me..

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..I want to roll on the floor and howl.. and I sit so decorously, on the carpet, methodically erasing all your photos in my mobile, laptop, tablet... I sit and cannot forget a single day of ours..

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You know, I don’t believe that we broke up.. You are so MY Person that even if you left.. No. You didn't leave! You just wandered off. What about me? I'll wait..

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Hello /Name/.. Well, now I know exactly what happens after a “happy end”.. I’m returning to where you took me from.. Home. Sorry..

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Sorry for the ellipsis of farewells, Darling.. I felt incredibly good with you.. With the same madness - it’s bad now.. I’m trying to control my consciousness, watching how plus changes to minus..

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..ah, haven’t you forgotten anything?. Maybe, after all, he left something behind and you need to return? Want? I'll tell you that I'm to blame for everything? even about things I don’t know about.. yell at me.. just come back..

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An invisible poison has poisoned our love. Suspicions became not a consequence, but a cause... We broke up simply because we stopped trusting each other. Absurd.. How did we get to this?

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Having realized our dream, we didn’t try at all to save it..) Next time we will be wiser.. Only “we” will be different.. And dreams too. Maybe not worse. But how painful it is to let go of our...

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Well? Did you breathe easy? Purely in a friendly way - envious.. I don’t have enough strength to gain the air of freedom.. I don’t feel it. I'm feeling lonely. Oppressive..

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We had happiness reflected in each other.. Now we have hostility reflected in each other.. When did this start? There are many questions... But there is only one answer - goodbye... or is it still goodbye?

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You know.. being in real life with you has developed in me vigilance, peripheral vision and intuition.. So, in general, THANK YOU!) And also, if you want to know, I cry all day long. And your intuition lies that you feel bad too...

Don’t call me if you don’t want to tell me that you’re coming back.. I won’t be able to pretend that I’m calm anymore.. I just love you.. and you just don’t love me.. and all this is not easy for me at all..

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I’m not afraid to write to you, although I know that you don’t love me anymore.. I’m afraid that if I remain silent, you won’t know that seven days a week, all these 168 lonely hours, I’m thinking about you..

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You caused me so much pain... You awakened such negative feelings in me that I surprised myself. And you simply abandoned me. Why do I still love you so much? Good.. Bad.. Any.

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You know, no matter how hard it is for us now... It will pass. A something new will come and bright.. Feelings.. sensations.. dreams.. And we will not remember the bad. I want you to be happy. Letting go, I love you.

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But all the same, you have me - fortunately... I gave you love... I will make you happy with a divorce. Funny?.) But to be honest, I don’t really care. Having made you happy, I lost my happiness. But I'm whining.. Good luck to you!

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I want to part beautifully.. Let go, healing with calm.. Leave you to you, without burdening you with women’s stupid “why?”.. I want to part, remaining your friend.. But I’m ready to kill you..

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I completely lost heart without you.. You protected me too much from the outside world.. You tamed me too much.. And I loved you too much. Although, even now I am.. too... Come back, eh?.

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I beg you, don't come back again. With each attempt the pain gets worse. Happiness to you.. And when you meet the one.. the very one), try to make sure that you get what we didn’t get.

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It was difficult to find you.. And I am grateful to you for the whole gamut of emotions that you played on my feelings.. The thing is that you have a lot of melodies.. And the number of listeners is clearly off the charts.. Good luck to you..

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You said that we broke up because of little things... No. These little things appeared because we decided to break up. What if we had decided differently? I feel bad without you.

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It hurts so much that the words “marry me” and “give me a divorce” were uttered by the same lips... Distinctly hated and tenderly loved...

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I will become even better, even more beautiful.. because the person who looks at me will deserve the best.. And my eyes.. My eyes will always look for the reflection of your gaze in the crowd..

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We never thought the same thing.. But we thought TOGETHER.. One day we stopped doing that. I'm sorry, but I can't let you go until we BOTH stop suffering. Or maybe let's think TOGETHER?

  • Beautiful words beloved dear man in my own words to tears The northern winds of separation carried me beyond the horizon of loneliness. Save me from the cold of distances, take me to...

    • How to break up with a man? What should I tell him? In this article you will find best phrases to break up with a man.

    Parting with someone whom you just recently called your loved one is not at all easy. Often women delay this unpleasant moment and avoid a farewell meeting, thereby aggravating the situation. Parting always has a negative connotation, however, even after it you can save friendly relations and not destroy all the good things that once connected you. Whatever the reason, by initiating a breakup, we are essentially telling the man that we no longer love him. Of course, this causes him unbearable pain, but by choosing the right words, you will reduce the force of the blow to his feelings and pride.

    We offer the best phrases that will help you break up with a man with dignity.

    Don't be afraid to take decisive action

    The understanding that your relationship no longer has prospects, as a rule, does not come immediately. But one day a moment comes when you realize that parting is the only way out of this situation. It would seem that you just need to explain to the person the reason for your decision and go to different sides without mutual claims and insults. However, in practice everything turns out to be much more complicated. Not every woman can calmly say, “We can’t be together anymore,” preferring to delay this moment, thereby causing the man even more pain.

    Psychologists for family and interpersonal relationships It is advised to act as decisively as possible in such cases. There is no need to put off the farewell meeting, and even more so, there is no need to give a person false hope. Parting is like a point in a story after which there can be no continuation. Often women choose the most painless phrases for saying goodbye, for example, “Now I want to be alone,” “Let’s break up for a while,” “Let’s just be friends,” etc. At first glance, these phrases seem ideal for a civilized breakup. But in fact, they cause great harm to both you and your partner. The meaning of these phrases is that you have not yet finally decided whether you want to break up with the person or not. Accordingly, you will not be able to put a firm end to the relationship, and the man will live with the hope that very soon everything will be as before.

    The farewell phrase should be unambiguous, decisive and uncompromising. Having heard it, a man must understand that separation is an inevitable fact that has no alternatives. But, at the same time, there is no need to part on a negative note, thereby crossing out everything that connected you previously. Even if you leave a man because of his mistakes and actions, try to pacify your resentment without bringing the situation to a scandal.

    An example of successful phrases for breaking up with a man

    1. “Right now I’m not ready for a serious relationship, neither with you nor with anyone else.”
    2. “I realized that I don’t love you.”
    3. “We have different paths, we cannot be together.”
    4. "My feelings for you have changed."
    5. "We don't understand each other."
    6. "We are too different to be together."
    7. "We have little in common."
    8. “Sorry, we can’t be together. Thank you for being in my life."

    Breaking up with a man at a distance

    It is especially difficult to break up with a person who is far away from you. If possible, still try to organize a personal meeting where you can explain to the man the reason for your action and dot the i’s. However, if no alternatives exist, for example, the person is in another city or country, and you will not see each other in the near future, you should not postpone the separation “for later”. Under any circumstances, you need to say goodbye to a man when you realize there are no prospects in the relationship.

    When a personal meeting is excluded, you have several options left to say the last “goodbye” - video communication, telephone conversation, email or SMS. Choose a method of communication that will allow not only you, but also the man to speak out. For example, by writing young man a farewell SMS or letter, you will, so to speak, “drive him into a corner,” because he will not be able to fully fend off your accusations. In addition, your words may be interpreted by him in a completely different way than you intend. If you want your breakup to be as beautiful and dignified as possible, talk to your man via video or phone. This way you can not only speak out, but also listen to his opinion.

    If your relationship developed primarily at a distance, emphasize the fact that you can no longer live alone and want your loved one to be near you. But, at the same time, let him know that you are not ready to change your life for his sake, and therefore you have made the final decision to break up.

    For example, a farewell phrase ending a long-distance relationship may have the following meaning:

    1. “I need a person who will be next to me. Unfortunately, we cannot be together."
    2. “Relationships cannot always continue at a distance. Our feelings have faded."
    3. “I can't be alone anymore. Since we can’t change the situation, it means we need to break up.”
    4. “Unfortunately, our feelings could not withstand the distance. I don't love you anymore."
    5. “You're never around. This can't go on any longer."

    The most important thing is not to delay by decision. The sooner you break up with a man, the sooner you and he will have a chance to start a new happy life.

    The need to write a letter to your beloved man can be different: he is far away, or you had a fight and want to talk about your experiences, or other circumstances have arisen. Be sure to write, and if you don’t know how or what, we will tell you.

    Letter to a loved one in separation

    If your lover is far away and you are bored, the words themselves will spill out onto paper. All you have to do is pick up a pen and get started.

    Here are some examples for inspiration:

    • You are far away now, but for me you are close: in my heart, soul and thoughts. I miss you terribly and can’t think about anything. But we have to live apart, and I try to be cheerful while waiting for you. I don’t always succeed in this; in the evenings, when I come home, I allow myself to be sad and give free rein to my emotions. I look forward to your return, the thought of this warms me every day.
    • Darling, I miss you. I greet the dawn with thoughts of you and remember how good it was for us together. Come back soon and I will never let you go again.
    • Forgive me, but I can’t help but feel sad when I’m away from you. Before, I didn’t value the time spent with you so much, but now I felt how hard it was to be alone. I remember every second next to you. I'm waiting and sad. Yes, there are a lot of things to do and worries, but the thoughts in my head are only about you, how are you, is everything okay? Let me know about you.
    • Every 5 minutes I look at my phone and wait for your call, because I can’t live without you for so long. Wherever I go, whatever I do, your face is always before my eyes, the dimples on your cheeks, you smile so charmingly and are so funny angry. Call me quickly and come back soon.

    While at a distance, we need to support each other with warm words, constantly remind each other of love, so that we can be sure that everything is the same.

    Touching confession to a guy

    It is often difficult to say directly about feelings, but it is much easier to write:

    1. Darling, I’m writing to you because I don’t dare tell you in words. You became not just a person in my life, you became life itself. I feel inspired when I'm with you and empty when I'm alone. Love you.
    2. I don’t know why I’m writing this, I probably don’t have the courage to say it directly. But I understand that I can’t hide it any longer. Before, I couldn’t imagine that you would become more than a friend to me, but that’s exactly what happened.
    3. I’m afraid to utter loud words, I know that all this is unexpected, but there is no point in remaining silent any longer. Regardless of your decision, I tell you about my love. I dream of a response, but I’m in no hurry, because everything “like a snowball on my head.” True love does not require reciprocity and, if you do not consider it necessary to respond to it, I will be grateful for your honesty in this case. I love and hope.

    Of course, it is difficult to advise in such a matter how and what to write. But having decided to confess, don’t be shy to say everything directly, frankly.

    Short notes of confession to your loved one

    Such notes can be thrown to a neighbor, classmate, colleague when you don’t want to talk for a long time, but just convey the main meaning:

    • I don’t know how to speak beautifully - know that there is a girl nearby who cares about you;
    • I have a few words that are bursting out of me - I love you;
    • I look forward to meeting you like a miracle. I myself did not expect that I would fall in love so seriously;
    • Tell me, has this happened to you, you see a person and understand what it is your Human? This happened to me the other day when I saw you;
    • I can’t believe it myself, but it so happens that without you I feel sad and lonely. When you are near, happiness overwhelms me;
    • I’m so looking forward to meeting you, and I’m surprised myself - have I really fallen in love? Apparently this is so, it’s not without reason that I’m drawn to you like a magnet.

    You need to write just such messages, men don’t like unnecessary words, everything is accessible and understandable.

    Letter to a man in verse

    It is very touching to receive poems written by the girl you love. Write to them to congratulate them on the holiday, while you are apart, or just like that:

    Now you are my man

    And I don’t know how to thank fate.

    Because I became your beloved,

    I can always be with you.

    All resentment goes away

    When I look into your eyes.

    And all the past sufferings,

    I'm ready to forget right away.

    I love you more than life itself

    And grateful to fate, dear,

    What did she give this spark,

    Inflamed our love.

    Thanks for finding me

    In the crowd among others.

    Between gray buildings, sad faces,

    We merged with each other.

    Undoubtedly, you can compose a few lines yourself, if not, choose the appropriate ones and give them as a gift.

    Tender and kind messages to your husband

    Tell your husband about your feelings after parting for a while and when he is around, let him remember that he is loved and expected:

    • I don't know if you remember when we met. But I remember this day clearly because it changed my life and me. I remember not only this, but also the way you looked at me for the first time, how you walked me home and called me the next morning. All this time I was overwhelmed by a flurry of emotions and doubts. But I soon realized that fate had given me a gift and gratefully accepted it. Thank you for coming into my life.
    • Perhaps I have never said these words and this is my omission. You are the best for me, you combine courage and intelligence, humor and prudence. I am proud of my husband, I can’t imagine how I would live without you or with someone else. I miss you when you are away, I look forward to the moment when I can return home. The best thing in my life is our nest and you in soft slippers.

    Letter to a loved one in prose

    And a few more message options for all occasions:

    • My dear man! Yes, that’s exactly what I want to call you. I know this is unexpected, but the feelings overwhelm me. You have become not just close, I understand that I was waiting for you. Having waited, I can safely say that I love. I’m not afraid to speak so openly even if you don’t reciprocate. After all, those we love do not become our property, just know this.
    • You are far away, and I, left here alone, realized what you mean to me. Previously, we lived and did not attach any importance to it; gray, ordinary days passed one after another, in worries and bustle. But we will begin to truly appreciate each other only now, after a long separation. Every day I go to bed, I imagine how I will run to meet you and what words I will say. And the most important thing is that I will never let go for so long again.
    • Darling, thank you for decorating my life. Only you could make her truly happy. I love you when you are angry and laughing, and it doesn’t matter to me what your mood is, I can always dispel your sorrows. You are the most wonderful person, no matter where you are, no matter what happens, I want to be there.

    Words of recognition and gratitude should sometimes be spoken by all people to loved ones and relatives. It doesn’t matter whether it’s spoken or written, the main thing is to get the point across.

    If you decide to break up

    It’s easier to express difficult thoughts on paper, and if you don’t have the strength to say “goodbye” looking into your eyes, write:

    • Hello, you are probably surprised to receive an email from me. But lately our communication has become increasingly impossible, we constantly swear and quarrel. Therefore, I decided to talk in this form. Having realized that this cannot continue like this, I inform you that we're breaking up. I'm sorry for everything and I forgive you.
    • Dear, good man! I can't muster up the courage to talk, writing would be easier. Our relationship has outlived its usefulness, we can no longer stay together. If we continue this performance, we will be lying to ourselves and those around us. Forgive me for my insolence, but I think you will agree with me.
    • Hello, I am writing a farewell message. I don’t have the courage for another meeting, I turned out to be a terrible coward. I feel that you are no longer looking at me so affectionately, you are not hugging me so tenderly. I don’t want to be unhappy, for you to be around only out of pity or a sense of responsibility. I let us go in different directions. Thank you for the wonderful time, goodbye and farewell.

    It’s hard to write about a breakup, but gather your will and explain yourself. Don't wait until you become a burden to each other.

    It doesn’t matter what you need to write a letter to your beloved man about. Whether it's a happy occasion or a sad one, remain honest and respectful until the end.

    Video: what words can you use to convey your feelings?

    In this video, psychologist Antonina Ryabtseva will tell you what you can write for your loved one to convey your love:

    It doesn’t matter in what form you decide to put your letter of separation, the main thing is the content. So where to start.

    • Make a plan. Don't laugh, this is important. Think carefully about everything you want to say, try to take into account all the details, because you are writing the last letter, which should dot the i’s. Don’t neglect it: if you feel like you’re about to unsubscribe, it’s better to put down your pen and collect your thoughts.
    • Write in draft. Gradually add thoughts to it, important nuances, forgotten words. Perhaps you can sit down and write a heartfelt message in 15 minutes, but don't rush to send it. It’s better to re-read the letter the next day, make sure that you really wrote everything and the way you wanted. Otherwise, you risk either getting stuck in endless correspondence, or tormented by the fact that you forgot the most important thing.
    • Less pathos. Remember that men are more down-to-earth creatures than women. Where you see a wonderful castle in the clouds, he sees white spot. There is no need to use all kinds of epithets and multi-tiered comparisons. Just write what you think is important.
    • Consider the man's character. Your letter should touch him, evoke emotions, which means write the message in his language. If he can't stand diminutive words or deliberately rude ones, don't use them. You need to express your thought and convey it to him, and if he feels irritated while reading, you are unlikely to get the desired result.
    • State the purpose of your letter clearly. You can write four pages of small handwriting and say nothing. Start with what excites you. “It’s very hard for me to think about it, but our relationship is over.” “I wish you could hear me. Perhaps by reading you will understand something that you did not understand when you listened.” Remember, men are rationalists, it is important for him to understand why you started all this.
    • Don't use writing as an emotional outlet. If you want to tell a man what a scoundrel he is, just to argue with him, it’s better not to send what you wrote. In this message you only expressed your anger, but it is unlikely that a man will understand your feelings. More precisely, he will understand that you hate him and don’t want to see him, and you won’t be able to convey to him exactly why. Write with a cool head.
    • Avoid cliches. If you've read a lot romance novels, was inspired by the fate of the heroine and now you write a poem filled with high feelings and suffering, then it may turn out to be just another novel, and not a message to a living, real person. Formulate your thoughts in such a way that the man does not feel like a character in a love story.
    • Write correctly. Don’t be lazy, use auto-check, re-read the message before sending, correct typos. Even the most insightful and intelligent thought loses its power if it is presented in an inappropriate form. No matter how upset you are, write correctly so that while reading the man is not distracted by correcting your mistakes, straying from the main idea.
    • Write if you have anything. This is perhaps the main condition. The point of the letter is to convey your thoughts to the man. There are no thoughts for a full letter, you can write a note: “Darling, we are breaking up. They didn't get along in character. It was good with you, I don’t regret anything. Good luck in your personal life.”

    Farewell letter to the beloved who betrayed me

    The betrayal of a loved one can extinguish faith in feelings and people for a long time.

    That is why it is important to separate the one who hurt you from the rest of the world, to realize that one person is not responsible for the actions and decisions of everyone else. In this case, writing is more necessary for therapeutic purposes. You might not even have to send it. But if you still decide that he should find out about your feelings, write for him.

    1. Describe your feelings. Resentment, disappointment, pain. Everything you experience should be in this message. He betrayed you and he needs to know how you feel. Otherwise, he will not learn a lesson from his action and will be sure that you calmly accepted his action.
    2. There is no need to appeal to his conscience. Your letter is simply a way to convey to a person information about the consequences of his action. Let him deal with his conscience himself, you only provide him with food for thought, and at the same time get rid of your own resentment: if you don’t tell the person directly, without concealment or hints, that he hurt you, this situation will torment you with incompleteness.
    3. Make a point. In every sense. Let this be the end of your relationship, you will cross him out of your life and go your own way alone. A farewell letter does not imply a lengthy showdown.

    Poetic farewell letter

    Admit it: You don’t want to part with him at all, do you? You simply do not have enough attention, and you decided to attract it in this way. Otherwise, it is impossible to explain the desire to say goodbye to the chosen one in verse. Or you are simply looking for a strong source of emotions for inspiration.

    In general, if you feel the urge to rhyme, no rules other than the rules of versification apply here. If you want to say goodbye beautifully, there are hundreds of ready-made masterpieces at your service that are easy to find on the Internet. Alternatively, you can contact a professional poet who can help you compose a touching farewell poem.

    Farewell letter in prose

    It’s much easier to express your thoughts in prose, especially if you write a letter in your own words, rather than copying it from somewhere.

    In this form, you can focus on the essence of the message, and not on the original rhyme with the word “love.” The main thing that is required of you is clarity of presentation and the ability to logically finish a sentence.

    Farewell letter to tears

    Let's be honest: Making a guy cry with a goodbye letter is problematic. In general, remember, have you seen your man cry? Therefore, only other girls who are in a similar situation can be moved by your message. But you can stir up a man’s feelings by observing three simple conditions.

    • Be sincere. You can find an example of a letter on the Internet, but if it does not correspond to your situation, then it will not evoke emotions. Forget about templates and beautiful proofread phrases, just write what you feel.
    • Write simply. Ornate comparisons, complex sentences, abstruse words look unnatural and insincere. Unless, of course, you explain yourself this way all the time. Your man (even an ex) will definitely feel whether you are writing on your own or using someone else’s hint.
    • Don't blame. Any reproach will make a man bristle and close himself off from your further words. In your farewell letter, admit that you did not find common language and a way to save relationships, but there is no need to find out who is to blame for their collapse. It is better to part with a pure soul and thoughts.

    Breakup: farewell letter

    The essence of the letter changes radically depending on whose initiative the separation occurred. If you are leaving, then explain to your man the reasons, do not make him suffer from the unknown. If he left you, express everything you think about this, especially if he did not bother to explain his action.

    1. No need for regrets. All kinds of “if only” only poison the soul and show that you, knowing how to act, did not fight for your feelings. Better use this knowledge with another man to build a stronger relationship.
    2. If you're leaving, leave. You understand the meaning of the word “farewell” correctly, don’t you? After this message, you no longer hope for the rebirth of love and continuation of the relationship. Therefore, do not send a letter if you are not confident in your firmness: a woman’s word should be as significant as a man’s. At least for yourself.

    Say goodbye to the guy who left me

    What do you want to say ex-boyfriend, who unexpectedly (or expectedly, which in principle is not very important) abandoned you. You are upset, offended, angry, you want him to know about your emotions and understand how hard it is for you.

    Of course, it all depends on the guy, and if there was sympathy and love between you, he will understand it himself.

    But in any case, you need to speak out so that you can let go of your emotions and gradually return to stability, and then start a new relationship.

    • Write a few letters. In the first, let it be absolutely everything that you think: angry, angry, offensive. You need to give free rein to your emotions. Do not re-read this letter, just throw it away. In the second letter, try to control your emotions. After the first one they will be more restrained and calm. You can use it as a draft. Write a third letter after a while: in it, state everything that you felt when you found out about your breakup, but no longer swearing, but simply telling. By this time, your emotions will subside and you will begin to understand what is happening.
    • Forgive your ex-boyfriend. All grievances and misunderstandings, quarrels, possible insults. At the moment of separation, he became a stranger to you, albeit connected with your past, which means that the negative should go with him. This is how you clear the way for new ones, good events. Write that you don’t hold a grudge against him and ask him not to harbor grudges. This does not mean that you will remain friends, but at least you will not have an enemy.
    • Don't write too much. The final version of the letter should contain only the most important things. There is no need for lyrical digressions and residual romance - your ex no longer needs this, and you will only feel worse. Imagine that you are doing a report on an internship after which the course will be closed. Don't show a man how much he hurts you. He knows this himself, but you will still have to experience emotions alone.

    Farewell letter to a guy in the army

    A girl who didn’t get a boyfriend from the army is a sore subject for many military personnel. Unfortunately, this happens: while the couple is close, feelings seem indestructible, but separation proves the opposite. How can you write to your ex-beloved that you are not expecting him to leave the army?

    • Write honestly. There is nothing worse than being sure that the person you love is faithful to you, and then finding out that he deceived you. Don’t think that by hiding the disappearance of feelings from a guy, you will do a good deed. Especially if you have already found a replacement for him, and your mutual friends and acquaintances know about it.
    • Don't expect forgiveness right away. You're hurting your boyfriend very badly. In the army, separations are especially painful, so be prepared that the reaction will be far from friendly. Accept that you have actually become a traitor.

    Farewell letter to the guy who cheated

    If you are one of the girls who are unable to simply break off all relationships, despite the betrayal on the part of the guy, a farewell letter will help you understand yourself.

    1. Don't ask for an explanation. You yourself know that you cannot command your heart to love. If it so happened that your lover chose someone else over you, accept this fact without listening and demanding excuses from him. They won't make you feel any better. In the letter, wish him happiness and forget.
    2. Don't ask or give a second chance. This is at least inappropriate in a farewell letter. If you are ready to forgive the betrayal, you should not pretend that you are leaving and wait for him to return you. You either make a point or you don’t.

    Farewell letter to the guy you love

    Why are you saying goodbye to your beloved guy? Did he leave you or do you just love him unrequitedly from a distance? However, this is not so important. In a farewell message to your loved one, you can write whatever you feel.

    But don’t forget to explain why you can’t be together.

    Perhaps this message will not be the end of your relationship, but the beginning?

    Farewell letter to a guy you don't love

    The situation is standard, known to many girls: you are loved, but your heart does not respond to this feeling. And I really don’t want to offend good man, but deceiving him or ignoring him is even worse. In this case, a letter will be the most gentle option: the unhappy lover will be able to read it alone and comprehend every line.

    1. Don't deceive him. The famous phrase “Let's remain friends” will not work if you do not want to be friends with this person. It’s better to write directly that his love puts you in an awkward position and makes you feel guilty for not reciprocating.
    2. Explain why you don't reciprocate. Perhaps it will be easier for the guy to cope with rejection if you tell him that you love skinny brunette auto mechanics, and he is a plump blond photographer.

    Farewell letter to a married man

    If your chosen one is married, and you know that he will not leave his family for you, it is better to leave them and take care of your personal life. And as a symbol of a new stage in life, let a farewell letter to your married chosen one appear.

    In it, say goodbye and ask him not to bother you anymore and not to worry about you: you are looking for a new love.

    The main condition: the letter should not catch the eye of your wife. ex-lover. Therefore, think about how to convey a message to him, and then boldly burn bridges.

    Farewell letter to the guy who hurt me

    Please keep in mind right away that this letter is not for him, but for you. The offense caused will burn and hurt, so it is better to get rid of it immediately. Of course, it’s better to talk in person, but sometimes it’s incredibly difficult to tell the person you have feelings for about your offense. And paper, as you know, will endure anything. And it’s much easier to say goodbye this way.

    Write as you would like to say it - without hiding a single emotion, talking about how painfully his words or actions hurt you. This is not a letter of complaint, but simply an opportunity to get rid of negativity, as well as explain to the offender that he is wrong.

    You don't have to write long letters to say goodbye to a person. You can take advantage in a modern way and send an SMS to your ex-loved one. We won’t go into the details of your separation, just be glad that you don’t have to see the person with whom fate separated you.

    Examples of farewell SMS messages can again be found on the Internet, but it is better to use your own experience to compose an electronic message.

    After all, these are your feelings, won’t you put them in a couple of sentences? Moreover, borrowed thoughts are very easy to recognize: as a rule, they are stereotyped and stilted.

    Remember that SMS is a short message, so try to be concise. If they abandoned you, say that you forgive and let go. If you are the initiator of the breakup, ask for forgiveness and wish happiness with another girl. Believe me, this is the very essence, and when breaking up you don’t need more, otherwise it can turn into a low-grade soap opera.

    Girls' mistakes

    This, of course, is not about grammatical errors, although their absence speaks in your favor. But even a farewell letter can become not a point in a relationship, but a meaningless ellipsis. To prevent this from happening, keep a few points in mind.

    • Don't write a letter if you'd rather talk. Still, it is difficult to convey all the intonations and nuances in writing. It may happen that a man will see in your message a completely different meaning than you intended. If you want to sort things out once and for all, do it in person.
    • Don't wait for an answer to your farewell letter. The point is for them to end the relationship. If you want to use it to attract a man’s attention, to interest him, to show that you are offended, do not hope for results. Men think straightforwardly, but not even every woman will understand such a veiled hint.
    • Don't threaten or blackmail. There is no need to turn the letter literally into a farewell message. Sending a guy notes in which you threaten to do something to yourself because of him is mean and pathetic on your part.

    Writing a farewell letter is akin to keeping a diary: it allows you to speak out, ask the right questions and get answers, and make it easier to cope with the breakup.

    When you get into stressful situation, emotions are looking for a way out, and writing becomes this way out.

    Therefore, do not close yourself off and do not look for ways to lose yourself in random affairs or going to clubs.

    You need to work through your problem.

    • In the letter, address the guy. Imagine that you are talking to him, ask questions, answer on his behalf. Perhaps in the process of writing a message you will not only calm down, but also understand the reasons for what happened.
    • Try writing yourself a letter on his behalf. This technique also allows you to forgive the person who offended you. And the ability to let go of grievances makes life much easier and more joyful.
    • It is not necessary to send a letter. If you feel better when you put your thoughts on paper, stop there. Burn the paper or save it until the moment when you want to re-read the letter and laugh at your naivety.

    Answers to other frequently asked questions

    Farewell letter to a beloved man from a mistress

    A farewell letter to your beloved husband is one thing, but a letter to someone else’s beloved husband is completely different. If you happen to find yourself in mistresses, but you decide to break off this relationship and finally write a letter, be careful. Compose the message so that he doesn’t think that you are trying to blackmail him with your feelings.

    1. Explain why you decided to say goodbye. Very few women can be completely satisfied with the position of a mistress. Yes, you may feel good together, but he leaves for his wife, and you are left alone. He lives life to the fullest, even a little more than necessary, and you are deprived of constancy and a sense of stability. And in order not to put him before a choice, you decided to go your own way.
    2. Don't blame him. If he did not leave his wife before the letter, then he is unlikely to do so after it. So just say goodbye, but don’t try to make him feel like the last scoundrel.

    How to write a letter for your loved one to return

    As a rule, relationships collapse due to misunderstandings and the inability to find a compromise in a couple. Who knows, perhaps your farewell letter to your loved one will give you another chance, of course, provided that there are still feelings between you. If you count on this, writing a letter will require maximum effort from you.

    • Use shared memories. Instead of descriptions of your future together that are abstract for a man, use what connects you. Does he remember your first kiss, your first walk, how he bought you cotton candy and you dropped it in the pond? How did you realize that you needed each other? How did you call him at night to pick you up from your girlfriend’s birthday party, and he got lost? Everything that connects you, that makes you family. Put these emotions into a letter, and if he doesn’t respond to it, then there’s really nothing to get back.
    • Write everything you were afraid to say and hid. It happens that even to a loved one I'm scared to open up. If you haven’t shown enough tenderness, now is the time to improve and do everything to make your loved one feel needed in your life.
    • Give the letter yourself. Don't send it by mail, but hand it in and wait for a response. If you can't say what you wrote, let him read it, and you sign it with a kiss at the end. It is more expressively difficult to confess your love.

    Remember that thoughts put into words take on a different meaning and can either improve life or poison it. So handle them carefully.

    Hello, beloved!

    You know. I have never written a letter to a loved one before. Indeed it is unusual way. But I'll try. Just please read to the end.

    I don't even know where to start. More than two months have passed since we met. And I remember that day. It is impossible to forget him, because he laid the foundation for our relationship with you. Even if they didn’t last long, about two months, they were amazing for me. After all, I was the happiest girl in the world, and even despite the fact that we quarreled, swore, and were offended at each other over all sorts of small trifles. These were my best two months of happiness!

    I remember how I fell in love with you. This was our second meeting. And during this short meeting, I realized that it would not be the last. My breath caught, my heart sank, and my chest felt somehow unnaturally warm. I couldn’t even imagine what this felt like. When I was driving home, there were a lot of different thoughts in my head and I couldn’t concentrate. I couldn’t believe that all this was happening to me. But it was only at home that I began to realize that I was in love with you. In love with your smile, with your beautiful eyes, in your voice, in you as you are. It felt scary and good at the same time. But in those minutes when I saw you, I was filled with happiness, joy, warmth, giving me hope for something more.

    I want to admit that I have never loved anyone as much as you. Of course, at first I tried to turn a blind eye to it. But then I realized that you can close your eyes to what you see, but not to what you feel!

    I always ask myself why this is, why I can’t be with my loved one, why am I being punished like this, why is I in such pain, I don’t deserve it. I am also a person, I am a girl, a girl who fell in love with all her heart for the first time, who once confessed her love, received a knife in the back. Why didn't you ever think about me when you hurt me? After all, each time the pain became stronger and stronger, and the traces of it became deeper and deeper in the soul.

    Your words about love? And I believed in them. Everything happened so realistically. And I completely trusted you, every word you said. But it turned out that this was a game? I'm not a toy. I am a girl who has a heart and soul. And you know, when a man truly loves a woman, he will never let her leave his life! Even if she wants it. He will try to fix something, change something, and not only in her, but also in himself! Because, having lost a loved one, you lose an irreplaceable part of your soul, you stop living, you begin to simply exist, without feelings, without emotions. Only with hellish pain.

    I don't understand my life without you. You are my meaning, my goal, my addiction. The fire that you kindled in me still burns in my heart. I will never be able to forget you. I won't even try. It's better for everyone else that I become heartless. Because there will never be a place for them in my heart. You became the first and only person I allowed to enter my heart, but you didn’t believe me, I saw it in your eyes, in your smile, in your every gesture. I felt it. I don’t want to be unnecessary, to bother, to impose. But I understand that this is exactly the case.

    You will never understand how much you broke me and with what difficulty, now, I am trying to glue myself back together piece by piece every day, through all the grievances, all the pain and tears. I won’t write or call anymore, I won’t look for meetings, I won’t nervously run to the phone when the music starts, why? All this is pointless and stupid.

    I hope that the day will come when you and I will meet by chance somewhere. Let's look into each other's eyes, and there is still the same shine, all the same feelings, nothing has changed. As soon as there is a light sadness in my soul, we will part as usual, but this time I will try to hold back the tears, I will not cry, but just smile. I will smile for you, so that you don’t have sadness in your soul, so that you don’t get upset. No matter how painful it is for me, I never cease to thank fate for giving me you. I wish you only happiness. I want everything to be fine with you, and this will make me feel calmer. I want you to finally meet your one true love and was happy with her. I want you to never experience the pain that I experienced. Remember you forever in my heart. I feel you. I love you.