The ex-soloist of the “Factory” group, Sati Kazanova, found herself at the center of a very unpleasant scandal due to rude remarks about sick children. At a press conference dedicated to her own foundation “Culture and Life,” the singer spoke about the main goals of her work and areas of charitable activity. The whole atmosphere was ruined by the artist’s thoughtless and fatal remark.
“Fabrikantka” emphasized that the foundation supports creative children, “and does not deal with sick, crooked children,” that is, disabled people.
Such a rude and heartless statement by the singer deeply offended the Russian artist Alexander Fadeev, known under the pseudonym Danko. The singer reacted very harshly to Sati Casanova’s statement and published an angry message on his page: “Do you want my opinion? So burn in hell, etc.!!! And everyone who stands behind you...” (Author's punctuation, style and spelling preserved - editor's note) 
Danko knows firsthand about the difficulties of raising sick children. The singer admits that Casanova’s words touched him to the quick and raised a very painful issue. Fadeev and his wife have been struggling with cerebral palsy for many years, which affects their youngest daughter. At one time, he and his wife even raised funds for treatment. 
“For everyone this is an empty phrase, but my child is sick. For me it's like a kick in the balls, like a slap in the face. For the rest of us, this is all a stupid laugh... But for me to hear this is very painful... She is a star and has no right not to control her words... She touches children. It would be better if she did something good…” Danko did not skimp on his angry words. 
The singer was actively supported on social networks, unleashing a storm of indignation on Sati Casanova. The artist realized the seriousness of her mistake and decided to apologize.
“I am very sorry that this happened. I apologize to those whom this topic concerns... those whom I offended or offended. God knows, I had no such intentions... I don’t dare be cynical or cruel towards them. I only found out about the situation in Alexander’s family now, after talking to him on the phone, I apologized to him. Sasha understood me...”
Sati Casanova spoke impartially about disabled children in her native Kabardino-Balkaria
At a press conference dedicated to the Culture and Life Foundation, which Casanova oversees, the singer called children with special needs “crooked and oblique.” And although Sati clearly had no malicious intent or conscious desire to somehow offend the crippled people, many of her colleagues turned against her.
Singer Danko spoke out most radically. On Facebook, the singer, whose daughter suffers from cerebral palsy, wrote: “Do you want my opinion? So burn in hell, etc.!!! And everyone who stands behind you." He later deleted his emotional post (presumably after a telephone conversation with Casanova), but in an interview with Life.ru he explained: “For everyone this is an empty phrase, but my child is sick. For me it's like a kick in the balls, like a slap in the face. For the rest, it’s all stupid to laugh at or doesn’t concern them at all. And this is very painful for me to hear. I think that this is simply incorrect, we still live in society, but she is not sitting in her village and saying this. She is a star and has no right not to control her words. Little children listen to this and begin to write into their subcortex that there are normal people, and there are crooked and slanted ones. It would be nice people, she touches children. It would be better if she did something good, otherwise she can only call them crooked and clumsy. But, in general, I understand that it’s stupid to be offended by her, she doesn’t even understand what happened. I know her in real life: just wind in my head - a dummy.”
Lolita Milyavskaya spoke more diplomatically about this situation to a correspondent of the same publication: “This is a matter of education. I know both Sati and Sasha Danko well, they are both good guys. As they say, a man blurted out without thinking. I think she just didn’t think and was stupid. I don't think she said that on purpose. The question is a figure of speech, she needs to apologize. I think this is a big misunderstanding expressed by the figure of speech. She just needs to apologize, it's common practice world practice. In addition, she does not yet have children of her own, so she does not yet understand that every unflattering word addressed to absolutely any child is perceived painfully by his parents.”
Sati Casanova. Photo Photo from the official VKontakte page
Under public pressure, Sati Casanova was forced to apologize. True, she did this not on personal blogs, but on Instagram of the Chechen Renaissance organization, writing that she was “understood in the right way.” The owners of the resource provided this repentant post with their angry comment: “Each of us makes mistakes, but only a truly mature, strong, open, smart man. Sati stumbled, but she had the courage to admit her mistake and apologize to those whose feelings were hurt by her words. This is a worthy act and a beautiful example for others. We should all learn the right lessons from this whole story:
learn to monitor and verify your words and actions;
learn to restrain your emotions so as not to say words, not to commit actions that you would later regret (we are sure that many regretted words spoken in the heat of the moment);
we must condemn wrong actions, but not brand people with bad epithets, we must give a person a chance to improve, to save his face;
we must call for the right, approved things, not be afraid to do it publicly and try to do it beautifully.
Thank you, Sati, for listening to people and making the right decision. We are sure that today we have all become a little better.”
Singer Sati Casanova at a press conference in Kabardino-Balkaria dedicated to her Culture and Life Foundation spoke incorrectly about children with congenital diseases. The artist emphasized that her organization will solve exclusively creative problems, and not help “sick, crooked and askew” children. Singer Danko was seriously angered by her words.
The artist, whose daughter suffers from cerebral palsy, wrote on Facebook after the scandalous press conference: “Do you want my opinion? So, rot in hell, etc.!!! And everyone who stands behind you... (the author’s spelling and punctuation have been preserved. - Ed.)". Alexander later explained that his stage colleague’s statement offended him to the core.
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“For everyone, this is an empty phrase, but I have a sick child. For me, it’s like a blow to the balls, like a spit in the face. For the rest of us, it’s all stupid or doesn’t concern them at all. But for me to hear this is very painful,” said Alexander (present singer’s name. – Ed.) “I think this is simply incorrect, we still live in a society, she’s not sitting in her village and saying this. She’s a star and has no right not to control her words.”
Such statements can cause serious mental trauma to children suffering from serious illnesses, the artist claims. “Little children listen to this and begin to write into their subcortex that there are normal people, and there are crooked and crooked people,” Life.ru quotes Danko. “It would be nice if people, she touches children. It would be better if she did something good, otherwise The only thing she can do is call them crooked and clumsy... I know her in real life: there’s just wind in my head - a dummy.”
The singer herself refused to comment on the incident, but admitted that she and Danko had already discussed this situation over the phone. The artist soon after the conversation deleted the emotional post from his page.
Oh, how familiar to any of us is the ridiculous situation when you blurt out something without thinking, and then spend a long time trying to soften or even out the situation, explaining something and apologizing. And no matter what explanations you give, it is clear to yourself that your “message” cannot be corrected. Perhaps they will excuse you, and even pat you on the shoulder, saying that nothing happens... But the residue will remain. Everyone has.
It is especially terrible for famous people to find themselves in such a situation. Any careless word spoken in public can cost one’s career and popularity in one moment. Remember, a few years ago, the talented actress Maria Aronova in one of the programs spoke ambiguously about children with Down syndrome, believing that these children are unpredictable and capable of anything in the future?
After the broadcast of the program, the famous mother of the “sunny boy” Evelina Bledans, together with other parents, turned Aronova’s life into a real hell. No public apologies helped; the actress was hounded by all the media for several months.
Sati Casanova is not ready to help “crooked and askew” children
On last week ex-soloist of the group “Factory” Sati Casanova visited her native Nalchik. During a press conference dedicated to the work of her charitable foundation, the singer stated that her organization would support creative children, and not help “crooked and oblique ones.”
At the same time, it is impossible to say that the words were taken out of context by unscrupulous journalists - the video from the scandalous press conference has been successfully circulating on the Internet for the fourth day.
For Internet users, for the singer’s fans, for her stage colleagues, Sati Casanova’s words about sick children came as a real shock. Thus, Alexander Fadeev, whom viewers know under the stage name Danko, could not contain his emotions, leaving on his microblog the wish for Sati to “burn in hell.”
Alexander and his wife are fighting for the life and health of their youngest daughter, who is diagnosed with cerebral palsy. It is not surprising that the artist reacted so painfully to his colleague’s careless words.
Internet users do not hold back their emotions when discussing Sati Casanova’s statement
Of course, Sati very quickly realized that she had made an unforgivable mistake. The singer hastened to contact Danko to apologize. Casanova then publicly apologized in the media. Nevertheless, latest news Internet users are vigorously discussing what happened in Nalchik.
Within a few days, the words that Sati Casanova said about disabled children spread throughout the media. Even the singer’s devoted fans cannot find an excuse for their favorite. Sati Casanova’s Instagram is no longer accessible - the artist closed her page because a stream of negativity immediately poured into the star’s microblog.
In discussions on forums and Internet portals, fans are still indignant:
“It’s terrible, I didn’t expect it. There is NO excuse for such words!”
“Disabled children are not necessarily insane; children with the same cerebral palsy often do not lag behind in intellectual development or lag behind only slightly; there are children who cannot hear or cannot walk for various reasons. But they read information on the Internet. Almost certainly among them there are those who loved Sati as a singer. How do they feel, huh? They already understand everything about themselves, and now this comes from the kind and sweet Sati. That's why we condemn. No one demands hypocrisy from her, but she must watch her speech. Now let it stand in front of everyone like a toilet without a door. You have to answer for everything, my dears!”
The word is not a sparrow: Sati Casanova shocked her with her words about disabled children updated: April 20, 2019 by: lenny_lenny
